I used to be married to a wonderful man that I was with ever since I w

I used to be married to a wonderful man that I was with ever since I was 23 years old. I loved him more than anything in the world and I was sure that we were going to be together for the rest of our lives. We had a story book wedding and after the perfect married life, until one day the most dreaded word in the world came between us. Swinging, one day my wonderful husband who I loved more than anything in the entire world told me that he wanted us to be part of a swinging group. He was almost 45 when he first brought the swinging subject up and after at first being shocked I tried to rationalize it by telling myself that he was undoubtedly going through a mid life crisis. I told myself all I could do for him during this tough time was love and support him even more than usual and that he would get over it in a few months.

A few weeks later we were at a dance club having a great time and drinking champagne when again he mentions to me that he is interested in swinging with that large group that he found out about. This time when he brought it up it really upset me and I immediately made him take us home, we argued for the next week but no matter how many times I told him that it was ridiculous and out of the question he still insisted. After a week of arguing he broke down and told me that the truth was he was very bored with out married life and that if I refused to take part in reviving our marriage then he was going to file for divorce.

Talk about a shock to the system, here I thought we were so happy and all along all he wanted was to be with other women because he was bored with me. I began to see him as a selfish and uncaring man and after a few more big fights I got tired and agreed to a divorce. I realized that I could not live with a man that was not happy to be with me, a man that was planning to be with other women sexually. I decided to hold my head up high and walk out of a ad situation and though its been tough going I am glad that I did.